Life of a Poet ~ Rommy Driks

We have a treat for you this morning, my friends. We are featuring Rommy Driks, of  Kestril's Rhythms and Groove , whom you likely have come across at our sister site,  Imaginary Gardens With Real Toads, and more recently at Poets United. It was such a pleasure interviewing Rommy. She is full of sparkle and good energy and writes some mighty fine poetry. Let's dive in.

Sherry: Rommy, as you are fairly new to Poets United, would you give us a snapshot of  your life? The poet at home – where you live, your family, (and don’t forget the furry ones), anything you’d like to share so we can get to know you better?

Rommy: I live in Bucks County, PA, just an hour north of Philadelphia in the United States. I share my home with my husband, two teenaged children and a stubborn but sweet corgi named Kitsune (Kit for short).

Wedding

Kit

Sherry: What a beautiful wedding photo. And Kit looks like a happy critter! That does my heart good.

Rommy: I have the good fortune to work from home for a quirky but cool little company, as an affiliate marketing coordinator (that’s a fancy way for saying I handle subcontractors who do marketing work for my company). When I do go into the office, Kit gets to come with me and shamelessly scam people into giving him treats and belly rubs. I used to be a research scientist before my children were born. I worked with recombinant DNA technology then. That was really interesting, but I don’t regret the career change because it means I’m home when my kids are. Of course it also means I get no snow days off either.

I’m a giant nerd and enjoy comics, sci-fi and anime.

Sherry: Such an interesting life! And how fortunate, to work from home. Where did you grow up, Rommy? Is there a story from your childhood you might like to share? Anything, looking back, that you think led you to being a writer?

Rommy: Oh goodness, I think everything tried to lead me not to be a writer. I was a bit type-cast in high school as a math and science geek, so I never got the impression people expected me to write anything more creative than a lab report. I was however a voracious reader, and making up stories seems to come naturally to people like that. I made up plenty of stories in my head when I was young, but was never brave enough to write any of them down.

Sherry: When did you begin writing? I know you write both poetry and prose and am wondering which came first.

Rommy: Funnily enough it was as part of an on-line class I took as an adult. I was in the process of exploring different religions and found an on-line school that demanded a lot of writing. I had a good enough rapport with the instructor to the point I finally felt brave enough to write my first story as part of an assignment. The very first Yuuki story I wrote came from those classes. I also wrote a few poems as well as part of later assignments. Some of them were pretty awful! But I got enough good feedback, and had so much fun creating them, I just never stopped writing after I stopped taking classes there.

Sherry:  I love how individual each person's path to writing is! Is there one person, when you look back, that you feel had a significant influence on your becoming a writer? Someone who encouraged and believed in you?

Magaly and Rommy

Rommy: Without a doubt, Magaly Guerrero. I remember shyly showing her some of the stuff I had written. She was encouraging from the get-go. In true Magaly style, she doesn’t mince words either, and because we have the good fortune to be friends, she doesn’t let me get away with slacking or half-baked efforts when she knows I am capable of better things. A good friend believes in you, a great one pushes you to be your best, and I’m grateful she’s in my life.

Sherry: Wow! It is so cool that Magaly is your friend and mentor. Lucky you!What do you love about poetry? What makes it sing for you?

Rommy: I love how it is a snapshot of emotion condensed by the imagery the poet chooses to reveal. There is something magical about the right rhythms, the right line breaks that subtly lead you through the moods a skilled poet wishes to highlight. It’s not something I can always achieve with my writing. I feel like my poems start life like unruly bonsai trees that I must prune to get the effect I want. But I love the challenge of trying.

Sherry: That is a very neat analogy, poem as bonsai!!! Do you have a favorite poet?

Rommy: I think the first book of poems I picked up was Leaves of Grass by Walt Whitman. I did so because of the movie Fame and the song I Sing the Body Electric. I found I loved the exuberance of his poetry. It’s funny thinking back on that, given my habit of pairing a song with my writing.

Sherry: Would you like to share three of your poems with us, and tell us a bit about each one?

Rommy: Certainly, let’s start off with "A Woman of Words".

A Woman of Words

The words I was given

were condensed milk

thickened on a stove,

sips of chamomile to relax,

and a swish of the hips.

The words I was taught

were liberty and diversity,

mottled with ambiguity

and uncertainty,

yet always mixed

with aspiration and hope.

The words that were shared

were a smoky salt kiss blended

into cream cheese and chives,

big city pitter patter

with old world curled up in the throat.

The words that I took

belong to forests across oceans,

real and imaginary,

flowing like waves

across a floating world,

somehow reminding me

of that first sip of chamomile.

This is an older one I still really like because of how personal it is. I feel like the magic of words surrounded me from the moment I was able to pick up a book and read it, though the nuances of that magic shifted based on my life experiences at the time. The last paragraph is where I found myself as a writer, creating and living in these fantastical worlds of my own design, which can be traced back to the daydreams I had as a kid, half sleepy from drinking my grandmother’s chamomile tea.

Sherry: How very beautiful, the poem and the memories. Sigh. I love it, especially the words belonging to forests and oceans.

Rommy: The second I’d like to mention is Ukiyo-e.

Ukiyo-e

Ukiyo-e blue is my inspiration

Lost in cerulean perfection

    A sky filled by dreams

          and caresses from impish winds

              implied but not seen

                 At least by most

Ukiyo-e red is my inspiration

My soul engulfed by its fire

      Scarlet hues dare me

          to be consumed completely

              in a passion of my choosing

                  If I am brave enough to say yes

I do not exist without them

Life, a sad monochrome

without the impudent tints

More than lines and colors on paper

They are muse

Calligraphy

Sherry: I especially love the line  "if I am brave enough to say yes."

Rommy: This one speaks to my love and enthusiasm for Japanese culture. I got hooked on anime when I was young, the first one I ever loved was Ribbon No Kishi, also called Princess Knight in the US, created by god of manga Osamu Tezuka. Somewhere in my thirties I wanted to explore the roots of the culture that created the art form I admired and found I really love learning about it. I am taking formal Japanese tea ceremony lessons through Urasenke Philadelphia and just continue to be inspired by the things I learn through my experiences in that class.

Sherry: Anime is very big in North America. I admire your interest in Japanese culture.

Rommy: The last is "Nightingale Hours".

Nightingale Hours

Wildness floats around you,

wolf wicked,

but I’m no little girl

to be dandelion led.

I am a pebble-strewer,

hoping you’d find your way

to my hidden home.

Delight-whisperer, come

find me quick

amid the mysteries

of the sentinel forest.

Bring your power

midnight mage.

I’ve plenty of my own.

Bring your passion

moon brigand,

and see that I

am just as adept at stealing

kisses and nightingale hours

as you are.

Shofuso

Sherry: Wow! This one takes my breath away. Both invitation and challenge.

Rommy: There are a lot of things I like about this one. This was created as a response to a challenge to use kennings in a poem (A kenning (Modern Icelandic pronunciation: [cʰɛnːiŋk]; derived from Old Norse) is a type of circumlocution, in the form of a compound that employs figurative language in place of a more concrete single-word noun. Kennings are strongly associated with Old Norse and later Icelandic and Anglo-Saxon poetry). I had never tried writing those consciously but really liked creating them for this piece. There were a few that were left on the cutting room floor, but I was happy with the way this turned out. Also, I really like being able to write really passionate pieces every now and again.

Sherry: It is wonderful. I had not heard of that form before. And your photograph is so beautiful! When did you begin blogging, Rommy, and what impact has it had on your work?

Rommy: I began blogging because Magaly Guerrero made me do it! No really, as much as I loved writing, I was pretty shy about sharing it initially. Magaly published one of my earliest poems on her blog site and slowly nudged (shoved) me into creating my own. There’s still this bit of nervousness, sending out a bit of writing into the big wide world to stand or fall on its own. I think blogging has made me less fearful over time, which is a wonderful thing. And getting to read and be inspired by fellow bloggers is a huge plus.

Sherry: Blogging does help us become more comfortable about sharing our work. And each poet's voice is so distinct. Is there a cause you are especially passionate about?

"Opposing De Vos matters because

Grizzlies are NOT the problem!"

With friend Mimi, who lives in Philly

Rommy: These days it’s almost easier to ask if there isn’t a cause I’m passionate about. I, like many Americans, have concerns about the direction our country is going in, which drive me to be more politically aware. I do a lot of work with Philly UP (Philadelphia United for Progress), especially the group that handles Tuesdays With Toomey. They (attempt to) meet with Senator Pat Toomey or his staffers every week to discuss a different issue of concern to us. These have included the future of the ACA, environmental concerns, educational concerns, women’s issues and LGBTQ+ rights. These folks really inspire me and it renews my soul to be around them.

Sherry: It is more important now than ever before,  to keep those issues front and foremost, (she says, diplomatically.)

I LOVE the placard Mimi is holding up, and am chuffed you were  both out voicing your concerns. Way to be! In the interests listed on your About page, you list two that really intrigue me. Tell us about your love of belly dancing and the Japanese tea ceremony.

Rommy: I started belly dance as a treat to myself for learning how to swim (I’m still a terrible swimmer though) and because my kids finally were grown enough that I could go out once a week to learn. I’ve been dancing for over a decade now, still with the same amazing teacher who has taught me so much more than just the art of dance. I have performed on stage and in restaurants, both solo and as part of a group and I really love it. I’m not a terribly fancy person but there’s something about transforming into this dancing diva in sequins that keeps bringing me back.

Sherry: That is very cool.

Kimono

Rommy: I’ve been doing Japanese tea ceremony for a few years now. As I said earlier, it grew out of my desire to learn more about Japanese culture, which grew out of enjoyment of anime. My school is a small but active subgroup from the larger Urasenke school based out of Kyoto Japan. Besides the formal art of Japanese tea ceremony, we’ve touched on calligraphy, kimono wearing, incense appreciation and Zen. I find it is a good way to get my busy mind to slow down and savor the moment.

Sherry: It is such an elegant and graceful ceremony. You have very intriguing areas of interest.
What are your hopes and dreams for your writing in the years ahead?

Rommy: Well I’d like to release a book of poetry and a book of short stories at some point. I already have a few things in reserve that could contribute to both of them.

Sherry: I am sure that is going to happen for you, kiddo. Is there anything you’d like to say to Poets United?

Rommy: Thank you so much for sharing your work and inspiring me to grow as an artist with your example.

Sherry: Thank you for the visit and for letting us get to know you better. It will make reading your poems even more enjoyable.

My friends, I hope you enjoyed this visit as much as I did. Do come back and see who we talk to next. Who knows? It might be you!