Bars & Melody
“Perhaps it is only human nature to inflict suffering on anything that
will endure suffering, whether by reason of its genuine humility,
or indifference, or sheer helplessness.”
― Honoré de Balzac, Père Goriot
"To me, that's what bullying is, showing off. It's saying, I'm better than you,
I can take you down. Not just physically, but emotionally.”
― Whoopi Goldberg, Is It Just Me?: Or is it nuts out there?
Midweek Motif ~ Bullying
What would it take to stop bullying? To keep it from escalating to destruction? To endure and survive it if it cannot be changed?
Your challenge: In a new poem, put yourself in the position of bullied, bully, ally or observer. Bring awareness to the nature of bullying and/or the solution.
The Moral Bully
by Oliver Wendell Holmes
YON whey-faced brother, who delights to wear
A weedy flux of ill-conditioned hair,
Seems of the sort that in a crowded place
One elbows freely into smallest space;
A timid creature, lax of knee and hip,
Whom small disturbance whitens round the lip;
One of those harmless spectacled machines,
. . . .
YON whey-faced brother, who delights to wear
A weedy flux of ill-conditioned hair,
Seems of the sort that in a crowded place
One elbows freely into smallest space;
A timid creature, lax of knee and hip,
Whom small disturbance whitens round the lip;
One of those harmless spectacled machines,
. . . .
(Read the rest HERE at PoemHunter.com)
Incident
by Countee Cullen
Once riding in old Baltimore,
Heart-filled, head-filled with glee,
I saw a Baltimorean
Keep looking straight at me.
Now I was eight and very small,
And he was no whit bigger,
And so I smiled, but he poked out
His tongue, and called me, 'Nigger.'
I saw the whole of Baltimore
From May until December;
Of all the things that happened there
That's all that I remember.
By Tim Schaefer
when I was comin' up
it was up close
and personal
and in your face
(not Facebook)
one thing it does
when you're on the receiving end
is helps to build character
so develop a hard shell
kids
like that giant tortoise at the zoo
(and shine it with turtle wax)
and have some empathy
for your tormentors
for they are hurting
the same as you
and
consider the source
can't tell you how many times
that has seen me through
never once validated
or took their words
to heart
that's called knowing who you are
never knew anyone
of my generation
(them damn hippies!)
who checked out over it
cuz
there is a place
deep inside
at your very core
where no one can hurt you
find it
it is your strength
and your reserve
and one day
it will lead you
triumphant
into the sun
(Posted with the poet's permission.
This poem was featured last week at I Wish I'd Written This)
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Thank you for the prompt - i think we may have taken a sideways route (again) - and certainly don't advocate the 'solution' suggested!
ReplyDeleteSideways routes are one way to get there, Jae, and that's the way I've chosen to deal with the prompt. A good Wednesday to you, and to all poets who tackle this tough theme!
DeleteI think we should have both a beer and a frothy coffee - yes good Wednesday to all
DeleteGood morning, Poets United! I'm trying to decide whether to post the one I wrote yesterday or to write a new one. It's a grey day here, the kind of day writing a new poem in would be a comfort. And bullies should be punished with poetry, I think.
ReplyDeleteI settled for revision and adding an illustration. Looking forward to a day and more of poetry.
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ReplyDeleteHope you are having an amazing day so far; sharing my poem "Blitz" which describes the time I went through bullying. Thank you Susan for the wonderful opportunity to share our feelings..!
Lots of love,
Sanaa
You are very welcome, Sanaa. That's what poetry is for, that and more.
DeleteWish, I never knew, what it means, to be subjected, to bullying, but, sadly, I do, from an early age. My poem is about the side-effects that bullying can have one's mental and physical health.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Therisa, for your powerful witness.
DeleteThis topic always takes me back to my friend in high school, Marcel, so I have revisited that time again. As always, it makes me very sad. Therisa, I know some of what you have been through, from watching my friend's life.
ReplyDeleteI share your sadness and sense of helplessness.
Deletep.s. Bars and Melody always make me cry. So talented.
ReplyDeleteI've watched them so many times!
DeleteJust to clarify, the original title of my poem was:"I SHOULD HAVE WRITTEN THIS LONG AGO IN HOPES YOU MIGHT SEE IT AND STILL BE HERE" It got shortened, which I have no problem with, but the longer title explains who I was thinking of:those poor, confused teenagers in the news over the past few years who took their lives due to the unrelenting and mindless cruelty of some of their peers.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry, Timoteo! I mistook the first line for the title. Thank you for drawing my attention to it so I could fix it.
DeleteIt's I who should apologise for citing it incorrectly in 'I Wish I'd Written This'. I saw the poem first on facebook rather than Tim's blog, and evidently misread the way it was presented there. I'll correct it on 'I Wish' too – a bit belated, but we should have it right for posterity!
DeleteHi everyone, I'm taking a break from Midweek Motif for a while as life is rather complex and busy for me presently. I hope to be back soon.
ReplyDeleteKeep well and write on!
Stay well yourself, Nicholas. Remember when you feel crunched that a poetic line here and there can restore your spirit.
DeleteVery powerful and poignant views today. Despite the tough subject matter, every piece has seemingly captured the elements.
ReplyDeleteTrue. I hope some more poems trickle in. I think school teachers often have students write about bullying, but poems by adults are rare. To me, Bullying, whether we use the word or not, is a kind of terrorism--out in the open and sanctioned like war. Thank you, Luk Lei.
DeleteGood day, everyone! I am a bit late this week, but I will catch up with others. Have a good week, and don't forget to think about a poem to share for Poetry Pantry this Sunday.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you're here, Mary.
DeleteSusan,
ReplyDeleteI am so pleased to have linked this poem to Midweek Motif. I have been absent too long and am delighted to be back again.
I shall visit to comment tomorrow.
Eileen
So good to see you!
DeleteThank you for an excellent prompt Susan, a prompt that made me think - something I haven't been doing for a while!
ReplyDeleteKind regards
Anna :o]
You are very welcome. It's been a long time, Anna.
DeleteAnna's poem reminded me of a very poignant piece of slam poetry by Shane Koyczan - "To this day" on how duplicitous bullying can be, whether victim or bully. In the bully's eyes he's defensive, reactive, almost heroic. The victim, tormented, stripped of identity, What's worse - what if both were one in the same, in the same person. I'll leave the link here - https://youtu.be/sa1iS1MqUy4
ReplyDeleteThanks for the link. It's a Ted Talk. Brilliant.
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